Most guys meet women without really trying, through college, work, or friends. I never had that. I moved to Delhi at ten, barely speaking Hindi, spent school as the quiet, bullied kid at an all-boys school, then skipped college to freelance from home.
At some point I realised that if nothing changed, I'd hit 30, having never really talked to a woman, waiting on an arranged marriage. That scared me way more than whatever it would take to fix it.
So I started cold approaching and wasted the first two years on random, inconsistent effort before realising that I needed a structured learning process. Six months later, I was going on a date almost every week.
That structured learning system is now the core of my coaching, helping students skip the wasted years and get results in a fraction of the time.